Clustering Problems. Please help (going crazy)

Ok, I have been at this for almost a week just going crazy trying to get this to work. I have two servers in AWS and I have the below configeration on both servers. Both servers can only see themself when i start the cluster. All ports are open and they reside in the same region us-east-1. I can also ping both computers from each other.

I'm on openfire 3.91 using hazelcast 1.2.2

Why is this happening?

Thanks!

<port auto-increment="true">5701</port>

        <join>

            <multicast enabled="false">

                <multicast-group>224.2.2.3</multicast-group>

                <multicast-port>54327</multicast-port>

            </multicast>

            <tcp-ip enabled="false"/>

              <member>10.0.3.167:5701</member>

              <member>10.0.0.219:5701</member>

              </tcp-ip>

            <aws enabled="true"/>

        <access-key>XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX</access-key>

        <secret-key>XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX</secret-key>

          <region>us-east-1</region>

          </aws>

        </join>

        <interfaces enabled="false"/>

          <interface>10.0.0-5.0-255<interface/>

          </interface>