Openfire Installation Error

I'm attempting to do a fresh, clean, install of Openfire 3.7.0 on a Windows 2008 R2 machine with SQL Server 2008 R2 installed.

The JDBC Driver Class code is: net.sourceforge.jtds.jdbc.Driver

The URL : jdbc:jtds:sqlserver://ServerIP:1433/Openfire;appName=jive

I've tried using server name instead of IP.  I've tried with and without the 1433. The most recent error (and most common) I'm seeing in the log is below.  Help!!!

2011.06.20 22:35:05 Prototype

java.sql.SQLException: Network error IOException: Connection refused: connect

      at net.sourceforge.jtds.jdbc.ConnectionJDBC2.<init>(ConnectionJDBC2.java:385)

      at net.sourceforge.jtds.jdbc.ConnectionJDBC3.<init>(ConnectionJDBC3.java:50)

      at net.sourceforge.jtds.jdbc.Driver.connect(Driver.java:182)

      at java.sql.DriverManager.getConnection(Unknown Source)

      at java.sql.DriverManager.getConnection(Unknown Source)

      at org.logicalcobwebs.proxool.DefaultConnectionBuilder.buildConnection(DefaultConnectionBuilder.java:39)

      at org.logicalcobwebs.proxool.Prototyper.buildConnection(Prototyper.java:159)

      at org.logicalcobwebs.proxool.Prototyper.sweep(Prototyper.java:102)

      at org.logicalcobwebs.proxool.PrototyperThread.run(PrototyperThread.java:44)

Caused by: java.net.ConnectException: Connection refused: connect

      at java.net.PlainSocketImpl.socketConnect(Native Method)

      at java.net.PlainSocketImpl.doConnect(Unknown Source)

      at java.net.PlainSocketImpl.connectToAddress(Unknown Source)

      at java.net.PlainSocketImpl.connect(Unknown Source)

      at java.net.SocksSocketImpl.connect(Unknown Source)

      at java.net.Socket.connect(Unknown Source)

      at sun.reflect.GeneratedMethodAccessor3.invoke(Unknown Source)

      at sun.reflect.DelegatingMethodAccessorImpl.invoke(Unknown Source)

      at java.lang.reflect.Method.invoke(Unknown Source)

      at net.sourceforge.jtds.jdbc.SharedSocket.createSocketForJDBC3(SharedSocket.java:304)

      at net.sourceforge.jtds.jdbc.SharedSocket.<init>(SharedSocket.java:255)

      at net.sourceforge.jtds.jdbc.ConnectionJDBC2.<init>(ConnectionJDBC2.java:310)

anyone can help me???